<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title>自我 on 符伟能</title><link>https://blog.fuweineng.com/tags/%E8%87%AA%E6%88%91/</link><description>Recent content in 自我 on 符伟能</description><generator>Hugo -- gohugo.io</generator><language>zh-CN</language><copyright>© 2026 符伟能</copyright><lastBuildDate>Sun, 14 Aug 2022 02:15:00 +0800</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://blog.fuweineng.com/tags/%E8%87%AA%E6%88%91/index.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title>生命始于不再取悦围观者</title><link>https://blog.fuweineng.com/posts/sheng-ming-shi-yu-bu-zai-qu-yue/</link><pubDate>Sun, 14 Aug 2022 02:15:00 +0800</pubDate><guid>https://blog.fuweineng.com/posts/sheng-ming-shi-yu-bu-zai-qu-yue/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;figure&gt;&lt;img
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&lt;p&gt;有人说生命始于 40 岁，有人说是 50 岁，其实都不对。&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;生命始于你不再取悦于围观者。&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2 class="relative group"&gt;一、取悦的陷阱
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&lt;p&gt;从小到大，我们活在别人的期待里。&lt;/p&gt;</description></item></channel></rss>